Just curious...why do so many people enjoy the act of sex but pretend to be offended when it's brought up as a topic of conversation? And to those who are genuinely offended or embarrassed by it, what makes them associate sex with words like "disgusting", "wrong", "guilt" or "shame"?
I recently lost friends on a few sites like MySpace, Facebook and Twitter. I told them I was creating an adult community and POOF...they were gone before I could say another word. Had they stuck around to hear all the juicy details (smile), they probably wouldn't have been so resistant but hey, it is what it is and I wish them nothing but the best.
Sex doesn't have to be degrading or disrespectful. If you don't like what someone has to say regarding the matter, don't give up on sex. Give up on that person. Our sexual natures aren't all built the same but that shouldn't keep you from enjoying that part of your life.
Find people that share your particular interests. Are you too shy to talk about sex with people you don't know or aren't comfortable with? Maybe you're tired of your alternative lifestyle and would prefer to indulge in something more traditional for a while.
Whether you're discreet, petite, freaky, sneaky, inexperienced or well versed, sex doesn't have to be, nor should it be, a nasty taste in anyone's mouth. All we have to do is find the flavor(s) we enjoy. To do that though, we can't be afraid of the discovery process.
Sex isn't something to run from...it's something we run to!