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Katrina — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 09:49:06 +0000

Craigslist has said bye-bye to their adult sections so "fuck my life". Lol, just kidding. I do admit that I was frustrated when that happened but I like what's going on here so why not make the most of it?

I've been looking for different websites to join but advertising with all of them is starting to get expensive. This place is free though and after talking to Michael, I decided that I'd help spread the word if it would help me find the type of fun I need and want right now.

I don't know a lot of people in Vegas yet but I'm hoping that will change soon. In other words, let's get some more people over here. Tell your friends and let's party!

Erotic Social Networking?

Michael — Mon, 16 Aug 2010 19:21:33 +0000

Why not? Social Networking is a very popular tool for building relationships and promoting a business. Countless industries use online communities such as Facebook, Twitter and Myspace to reach out to the general public but erotic entertainment doesn't seem so eager to follow along. Why is that?

The most innocent answer would be the perceived lack of privacy. "General Public" obviously isn't the ideal target market for erotic entertainment and most providers and hobbyists (or clients) will reject anything with the potential to expose this private part of their lives.

Social networking, however, is not exclusive to the general public. It is as private or public as you need it to be and, where erotic entertainment is concerned, is probably the safest way to choose who you spend time with. SideSugar has a host of features that help you verify and get to know other members.

Photo/Webcam Verification. You don't have to make this photo public (you can keep it in a private album) but once you've been verified, a badge is placed on your profile for the community to notice.
Reviews. This feature is used for providers only. We aren't looking for all the juicy details. We just want to know that the provider looked like her photos, was on time, friendly and is recommended by the client(s) who saw her. This hasn't been a very popular feature in Vegas because it forces the provider to be honest...not something that agencies are well known for.
Services. Unlike Craigslist, or even backpage, we don't charge extra for posting. There's an "Available Now" section as well as "VIP Requests" that allows members to advertise their services or what they're looking for.
Chat. Feel free to jump in the chat rooms whenever you have the time. It's live conversations with video capabilities if you're daring enough.
Forum Discussions. Topic specific conversations, jokes, and site information.

Yes, there's more but the point is that social networking is a great way to feel comfortable within the community and to help you decide who's worth meeting in person or not. It also saves everyone time because you don't have to constantly screen members who have already been verified.

There's no secret to what SideSugar is doing. The biggest problem with erotic entertainment is the dishonest tactics that people use to manipulate services and/or steal income. It doesn't have to be that way though. Services should be genuine and fun. Clients should be safe and feel safe. With erotic social networking, we can do this. With SideSugar.com, we can do so much more.

Enjoy!

For Life

Lilah Rice — Thu, 17 Jun 2010 12:46:26 +0000

On any Monday morning, the polite thing to do is ask your co-workers about their weekend. For the most part, no one really cares about your weekend. They are asking simply because it is expected on a social level. The expected answers go somewhat like this:

"It was good. How about you?"
"Too short. Yours?"

Or for non-morning people:
"Good. You?"

In almost every business, Monday mornings are packed with everything that needs to get done that week and finishing up things that didn't get done the week before. Unless you're only working with one other person, inquiries about your weekend are not to be taken literally. We got shit to do, son!

Employers want to give off the appearance that they care when they really don't. It's only acceptable to tell someone if something really bad happened or if something really good happened. Everything in between can be summed up in one of the above quoted responses.

Here's one thing you should NEVER talk about--even if you work with your best friend--HERPES. No one wants to know that you had a breakout of herpes over the weekend. That's the kind of shit you need to keep to yourself. It only makes the inquirer uncomfortable and nauseous and it makes you look socially retarded.

Herpes is for life.

See Sex Run

Michael — Sat, 10 Apr 2010 04:07:14 +0000

Just curious...why do so many people enjoy the act of sex but pretend to be offended when it's brought up as a topic of conversation? And to those who are genuinely offended or embarrassed by it, what makes them associate sex with words like "disgusting", "wrong", "guilt" or "shame"?

I recently lost friends on a few sites like MySpace, Facebook and Twitter. I told them I was creating an adult community and POOF...they were gone before I could say another word. Had they stuck around to hear all the juicy details (smile), they probably wouldn't have been so resistant but hey, it is what it is and I wish them nothing but the best.

Sex doesn't have to be degrading or disrespectful. If you don't like what someone has to say regarding the matter, don't give up on sex. Give up on that person. Our sexual natures aren't all built the same but that shouldn't keep you from enjoying that part of your life.

Find people that share your particular interests. Are you too shy to talk about sex with people you don't know or aren't comfortable with? Maybe you're tired of your alternative lifestyle and would prefer to indulge in something more traditional for a while.

Whether you're discreet, petite, freaky, sneaky, inexperienced or well versed, sex doesn't have to be, nor should it be, a nasty taste in anyone's mouth. All we have to do is find the flavor(s) we enjoy. To do that though, we can't be afraid of the discovery process.

Sex isn't something to run from...it's something we run to!